Friday, July 31, 2009

Things I Learnt Jan-Jun 2009

Today is the 31st of July. Tomorrow is the 1 Aug. And we are officially 1 more month pass 2nd half of the year.

What have I done to my life?

I am laughing.

I should say for the last 6 months, a lot has happened. And many learnings. While I am a person with attitude, I have indeed officially discarded a few friends out of my list. I guess I don't need crap.

I learnt that to be good at the things I do at work, I need to be very confident in my train of thoughts, my decision and what I say. I must be able to be a good poker player if I am to succeed in the rat race. So far, I am on my way there, I think. Hehe...

I also realised I need to be daring in my believes and dreams. If I dare to dream, I will dare work for it and I will eventually dare to one day reach for it. It's actually simple. And I realised this comes along with perseverance and lots of passion for life. They all have to work together into one big pot.

I also learnt that I must let go but I must never forget. Never forget who betrayed you, never forget what people say, never forget how people make you feel and never forget not to do that to other people. And move on.

I also learnt that there are people in your lives that you must always love from afar. No matter what.

I also learnt that despite how much acting, games and back stabbing people play in the rat race, at the end of the day, the most honest and straight forward person will still prevail in it. Thought the journey may be longer, but it sure pays if you are fair to yourself and the people around you.

Respect to me, is one of the most important thing in life that makes everything works well besides having money and health.

Last but not least, I also learnt that I should not take anything seriously except the love people give me. I should take things easily because life is not worth the anger, frustration or heartache. No one or thing should cause you this grieve.

And there, things I learnt for the past 6 months and still going.