It is Friday today and I am elated. So elated until I feel like ponteng-ing my yoga class this evening. Hehehe… These days with the need to maintain this hairstyle, exercise and getting the hair wash needs a LOT of compromise! I think that is what most women do to keep them busy.
Busy with manicures, with hair wash and blow, with facials, with beauty salons, with waxing, with running errands, with shopping, attend to their kids and God knows what else. So I guess that pretty much fills up the time of most rich women who leech on their husbands / boyfriends' money.
As I have said, let's see how long this feat of maintaining this hairstyle will last because I know myself too well. Hahah… once I start running again, let's see…hahah… to begin with I hate sitting down and being attended to when half of the time I can't even read to fill up the time. What a bore. I really don't know how most women can just go about it over and over. I salute their desire and commitment. Haha…
I received several joke mails from friends and one of them is pictures of what the women did to their husbands who cheated on them. Billboards, car spray, axes on the car, pick-up truck smashed on top of his Ferrari (ouch!), smashed windows and paint all splattered in the car interior (pain, pain) and etc etc.
Then the sender recalled this particular mail. Hehe… so I asked his if the mail were sent to someone who is in the same shoe. Heheh… Apparently yes. LOL.
Well, affairs don't start for no particular reason. Affairs always happens because either the man or woman isn't giving what the other person wants in the relationship. If it is the excitement, then that is what is short. If it is the sex, then that is what is short. If it is the attention, then that is what is short. If it is the lovey dovey feeling again, then that is what is short. If it is the feeling that they are humping a bag of lard, then that is what over (urgh! And they say I will love you no matter what becomes of you… BS…LOL). If it is the feeling of walking beside a hag, then that is what is short (till death do us apart is just part of a romance novel or rather a novelty).
And like every living thing, if one don't get what one feel one needs, one will go find it elsewhere. Simple. And I choose to believe even the most happening playar would stop short if one is able to hold his/her interest. The problem is, for how long? That is the challenge.
But as I have concluded, it is important who is the partner. Keeping up with the partner is one important thing that keeps relationship alive. And whether one can grow in sync together as life goes on is THE thing that keep 2 persons together. It is always when one falls short, that is when the relationship gets broken. And when that happens, if the partner is willing to pull him/her up and journey on together again, things will be great. Unfortunately, some partner refuse to follow or some partner refuse to lend the hand.
Then we have some people straying and some people who stop living. That is when they start saying things like, "For the sake of the children," "For the sake of old times,"For the sake of ha mik lan chiow." Heheh… I mean, excuses.
Well, I'm only giving a so-called analytical point of view about affairs and relationships but by end of each day, it is up to the individual to decide how they are to lead their life. So if they are unhappy or happy, there is no one but themselves for the credit. No use blaming the person next to you about your miserable life or envy others who have. It's the effort.
Just simple philosophy actually.
