Hokay, here I am in the hair salon with my dearest hairdresser, Jefry and his battalion of staff, tending to my hair to get the hair color sorted. Of course, this would be taking me hours before I am out from the salon, looking fabulously (ehem ehem) polished.
So I owe my thanks to Jefrey because he made it a point that his salon is well equipped with a good wi-fi for people like me who is practically stuck in the rut in the name of vanity so we could have some fun surfing the internet while getting their mane fix.
Ah yes, about affairs.
As far as I could remember, this issue has been revolving around me in recent years. I realised relationship 'affairs' per se have not been the issue of rampant amongst the people I know until I hit the big 3-Oh.
I think it is when maturity and sexuality gets the better of us, that, some of us have decided to take some de-tour from our sane and extremely secure lifestyle to one with steamy attention, lustful vibes, extraneous fun flirting and sexciting sexual experiences off the beaten track.
And I wonder why would anyone want to venture into something that doesn't bring any result or happy ending by the end of it all.
That is my point.
I am not threading on 1 night stands or sexual moments with a gigolos, pros or escorts for the matter. I am talking about people who have decided to embark on not just a sexual journey but emotionally tangled sojourn with someone other than whom they already are with.
Because if one thinks about it in logical sense it doesn't make sense. I mean, how is it that one relationship is to be given up and pursued for the 'other' which was based on heated flirtation, sexual frenzy, undivided forbidden fruit of attention and /or lustful temptation.
In fantasy, it simply works and that explains "fantasy." But what about reality? What about the mundane going to work, make a living, waking up for another day, living through it day in and out with someone where sexual frenzy was the sole purpose of the affair's survival (for example).
How could such relationship survive?
Besides, when everything else settles down to 'reality' mode, all sexual frenzy, flirtation fondue and kittenish lust would hide in the closet all again, and everything else norm would start taking its place as norm it would be.
So how, how could such relationship be working?
It would eventually just die down or abandon simply because life has already its ways to live by. Like it or not. And life, doesn't has a 'right' place for affairs. As I see it, they are mere condiments for that moment when the food gets all stale or tasteless, and it would eventually, move on to the next dish.
It is however, when people gets greedy and they want more from affairs that it destroys the sanity of 2 supposedly sane people. It breaks heart, it breaks families, it breaks relationships, it breaks love, it breaks people.
And what use is life when the results effects people in such berserk condition?
Anyway, as I have said before, it is the matter of people's heart if they wish to embark on something of no conclusion or of happy ending. It is afterall the choice of people's life.
But there is no basis or what so ever for distress or ruckus piss when tongues wag. And so, it is.
And thus, people like Minah Tudung or even Sanjeev has totally no basis to be angry over anyone who speaks ill of them. Or even my dearest Jay and her old man. Or even Mr Christian and his China chick. Or even Jet Li with some-lady-I-forget-her-name. Or even Lim with Lilian. Etc. Etc. Etc.
There. I've spoken of my bereavement on affair. As much as life is to us all, as fragile as we are as humans, it is always the forbidden fruit that is far sweeter than that is not. Such is life.
But then again, life isn't all about relationships of this sort. There is far more to it that adds spices and excitement that doesn't get to such extend of mess and frustration. Not mentioning heartaches. There is indeed life beyond affairs I say... good luck to you all with one, I just hope there will be a happy ending to it all.
So I owe my thanks to Jefrey because he made it a point that his salon is well equipped with a good wi-fi for people like me who is practically stuck in the rut in the name of vanity so we could have some fun surfing the internet while getting their mane fix.
Ah yes, about affairs.
As far as I could remember, this issue has been revolving around me in recent years. I realised relationship 'affairs' per se have not been the issue of rampant amongst the people I know until I hit the big 3-Oh.
I think it is when maturity and sexuality gets the better of us, that, some of us have decided to take some de-tour from our sane and extremely secure lifestyle to one with steamy attention, lustful vibes, extraneous fun flirting and sexciting sexual experiences off the beaten track.
And I wonder why would anyone want to venture into something that doesn't bring any result or happy ending by the end of it all.
That is my point.
I am not threading on 1 night stands or sexual moments with a gigolos, pros or escorts for the matter. I am talking about people who have decided to embark on not just a sexual journey but emotionally tangled sojourn with someone other than whom they already are with.
Because if one thinks about it in logical sense it doesn't make sense. I mean, how is it that one relationship is to be given up and pursued for the 'other' which was based on heated flirtation, sexual frenzy, undivided forbidden fruit of attention and /or lustful temptation.
In fantasy, it simply works and that explains "fantasy." But what about reality? What about the mundane going to work, make a living, waking up for another day, living through it day in and out with someone where sexual frenzy was the sole purpose of the affair's survival (for example).
How could such relationship survive?
Besides, when everything else settles down to 'reality' mode, all sexual frenzy, flirtation fondue and kittenish lust would hide in the closet all again, and everything else norm would start taking its place as norm it would be.
So how, how could such relationship be working?
It would eventually just die down or abandon simply because life has already its ways to live by. Like it or not. And life, doesn't has a 'right' place for affairs. As I see it, they are mere condiments for that moment when the food gets all stale or tasteless, and it would eventually, move on to the next dish.
It is however, when people gets greedy and they want more from affairs that it destroys the sanity of 2 supposedly sane people. It breaks heart, it breaks families, it breaks relationships, it breaks love, it breaks people.
And what use is life when the results effects people in such berserk condition?
Anyway, as I have said before, it is the matter of people's heart if they wish to embark on something of no conclusion or of happy ending. It is afterall the choice of people's life.
But there is no basis or what so ever for distress or ruckus piss when tongues wag. And so, it is.
And thus, people like Minah Tudung or even Sanjeev has totally no basis to be angry over anyone who speaks ill of them. Or even my dearest Jay and her old man. Or even Mr Christian and his China chick. Or even Jet Li with some-lady-I-forget-her-name. Or even Lim with Lilian. Etc. Etc. Etc.
There. I've spoken of my bereavement on affair. As much as life is to us all, as fragile as we are as humans, it is always the forbidden fruit that is far sweeter than that is not. Such is life.
But then again, life isn't all about relationships of this sort. There is far more to it that adds spices and excitement that doesn't get to such extend of mess and frustration. Not mentioning heartaches. There is indeed life beyond affairs I say... good luck to you all with one, I just hope there will be a happy ending to it all.
