I'm concluding from this post that there are many men in this world who detest knowing a lady who are smarter than them. More capable. More interesting. Of course I am not saying there are no bitch biting but what I'm trying to imply in this post is about the general behavior of men who often perceive their balls to be made of steel. That womankind would never be better than them.
Now I am starting to talk like a feminist. Haha. But feminist I am not. I can't even seek for equal rights when I can't see that point myself. Anyways…
But I am stating this point because as I grow older and as I meet people of certain stature, it is impossible to discard this rudiment. Hard as I try.
My disclaimer however, does not apply to my father, the far and few guy friends whom I know are purely metro sexual in action and thoughts, my cousin brothers, my brother-in-law, my brother, my husband and of course, the men in my office who were responsible to my career growth and opportunity to some extend. That many only.
The rest are ego boasted men, fill up to their scrotum and deflated scrawny penis.
I have come to terms that it is wrong for a lady to be capable. It is even more wrong for a lady to be thriving in a testosterone laden arena comprises of cars, bikes, boats, racing, ball induced games and what ever else 'testosteronic.'
What appalled me is when I get remarks from men telling me to shut up and listen to them because they think they know more (no, they said, they know more. It was not a 'think'). It also preplexes me when men refuse to listen to what I have to say because they think they know more and my place is to listen. And by that means, they often either cut me short from what I am saying (and still think that is not rude) or telling me on my face that I don't understand what he is trying to tell me. And the mother of all ego, is, when they allow me to talk just as a gesture of their supposedly gentlemen ways (again, so to feel good about themselves being a man) when at those points, what is said from my gap is nothing more but utter rubbish.
I mean, honestly men, is that the only defense machinism you guys have to shun a lady?
Common. You can do better than that. Try beating my ego which is much appauled than yours. Try.
Hard is it not? Hard it is not to hit through this numb skull is it not?
Well, welcome to the world of ego. Taste your own medicine.
